Dealing with cyberbullying

Ryan Fleming – On the Beat

It used to be that bullying ended at the school gate or the workplace door. Now, it follows people home. In our digital age, where nearly every Kiwi carries a phone in their pocket, bullying has gone online—and its effects can be just as damaging, if not more so.

Ryan Fleming outside Te Awamutu Police Station.

Cyberbullying doesn’t discriminate. It targets students, parents, business owners, and even seniors. It can come in the form of abusive messages, cruel memes, online shaming, or the spreading of false rumours on social media. And for many, the emotional impact can be devastating -affecting mental health, relationships, and even livelihoods.

Here in Te Awamutu, we pride ourselves on being a tight-knit community. But even in smaller towns, digital harm is a growing problem. As more of our lives move online, we need to be just as vigilant and supportive in digital spaces as we are face-to-face.

Thankfully, New Zealand has laws to protect people from online abuse. The Harmful Digital Communications Act (HDCA) was introduced in 2015 to tackle exactly this issue. Under the Act, it’s illegal to send or publish digital messages that are intended to cause serious emotional distress. This includes texts, emails, social media posts, images, and videos.

The HDCA sets out 10 communication principles—such as not inciting hatred, not disclosing sensitive personal facts, and not harassing or intimidating others. If someone feels targeted by harmful online content, they can contact Netsafe, an independent organisation that helps mediate and resolve digital abuse cases. In serious situations, the matter can even be taken to the District Court.

So what can we do as a community?

Parents and guardians can talk to their kids about online safety and kindness.

Report abusive or threatening content rather than engaging with it.

Support those being targeted—don’t stand by in silence.

And if you’re a victim yourself, know you’re not alone. There is help, and the law is on your side.

Cyberbullying thrives in silence. Let’s make it clear that in Te Awamutu, our community standards extend to the online world too. Respect, decency, and accountability aren’t old-fashioned—they’re just good sense, on and off the screen.

If you or someone you know is being targeted online, visit Netsafe or call 0508 netsafe for free, confidential help.

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